Life is the art of drawing without an eraser. ~John Gardner
I look at this picture and see my sweet Bubbe smiling from ear to ear with his hands on a steering wheel, guiding the boat - right into the wall.
Sweet Daddy - is letting him.
That's one of my favorite things about Sweet Daddy - he gives you space to try things and see what happens.
For you, my dear Bubbe, like to learn everything the hard way. You have to create your own experiences - sometimes a few times before you change your course.
One of the things you are learning though is - it's okay to be wrong. That's how you learn.